Category Archives: love

Serious question..

Why do guys seem to wanna fuck me but don’t seem to wanna make me their girlfriend?

Is there something wrong with single guys these days? Or in my effort to avoid a relationship (for now) have I been acting too much like a ho?

The thank you note to all the lovers of 2016


I realized that it’s been 7 years since the last thank you note.

As we just entered 2017 and leave behind the one hell of a year that is 2016, I think it’s only appropriate that we do a little thank you note to all the man involved** in my life last year.

ADW, aka THE ex, thanks for showing your true color. I seriously have no regret whatsoever on the decision to cancel our wedding. Was it tough? Hell yeah. Have I forgiven you? Probably not fully; but I’m for sure trying.

JY, aka the Neuroscientist, thanks for analyzing my head post break up. Emotional burnout was such a perfect term.

AA, aka the Director, thanks for being such a lovely rebound. I’m sorry about how it ended; but I just was not ready for a WE.

RM, aka the douche bag, thanks for reminding me that my head was definitely nowhere near ready for a one night stand; especially with someone like you.

BM, aka the dude with the girlfriend, thanks for… I don’t know yet. I have a feeling our story is not over yet.

HF, aka the end of year holiday Tinder match, thanks for your music and for the perfect end to 2016 🙂


**had sexual relationship with


What is up with married / in relationship man and me these days?!

I should probably start pretending that I am seeing someone so they know I am 100% off limits 😑😑😑

Got me crying every single time

Fuck you Black Mirror and all your crazy episodes!

In this world we’re just beginning
To understand the miracle of living
Baby I was afraid before
But I’m not afraid anymore

Dear Mr. M..

I’d like to dedicate this classic yet so powerful film to you.

If only I’m allowed to voice my heart out; I will tell you:

Take the big leap. Please.


When I thought I am much better already…

One email from the ex came, and I am back at the bottom.

And not even some good romance from the sweet new dude can help me on this. This is my own mess that I need to sort out. Once and for all.

I couldn’t take the embrace of a real romance
It’s race right through me
I’m much better off the way things are
Much much better if, better by far, by far
I wouldn’t know what to say to a gentle voice
It’d roll right past me

If you keep on killing, you could get me to settle
And as soon as I settle, I bet I’ll be
Able to move on

Quote of the day

If you truly love someone, you make it easy for them to love you.

To ask someone to love you no matter what is just selfish and childish.